McCartan Dessy (Grumps) RIP Birthday Memories of our Dear Daddy Dessy who's Birthday occurs 28th May on what would have been his 80th Birthday. No matter where we go, no matter what we do, we'll cherish the Memories of yesterday and the laughs we had with you. Happy Birthday Grumps. Missed everyday by daughter Maureen, sons Desmond and Gerard, daughter-in-law Michelle, sons-in-law Paddy and Declan, grandchildren and great grandsons. We love you daddy xoxo.